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writes:ive just been diagnosed as severly deppressed and my boyfriend is being really off with me and i have no idea why.im supposed to be moving about 500miles away to live with other relatives but he doesnt know and i dont know how to tell him. ive been putting it off because of him coz i really dont feel i have the strength and courage to leave him.he probably wont come with me as his ex girlfriend is currently expecting his 4th child. this has also put strain on us.i just really dont know what to do.i need so much help please help x
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (23 July 2008):
 i hate to say but i agree with jen it dont sound good by what you have written, and if he is expecting another child? was that when he was with you or are you a new thing..to be honest you best tell him your leaving and that you want to severe contact. i was severly depressed once and i had a bf at the time and it ddnt help the only thing that did was my family and my own strength and willingness to get myself out of the hole i landed in..be strong hun you need to move on and get yourself out of this hole people will put their hands out too you dont be afraid to grab it with both hands.. as far as i can see your bf is pushing u back in the hole and your getting more afraid to grab the right hands..sorry for the anlagy.. you need to do whats best for you right now and that is to get yourself out of that hole and fighting fit you can do it you have the power to change this!! please keep us updated lots of hugs aphexy xx
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reader, Jen86 +, writes (22 July 2008):
he's expecting a 4th child with his ex? And you want to stay with him? YOu don't need someone like this. Depression is hard enough to beat without someone else dragging you down. Move away to your relatives and sever all contact with him. Your family will be able to help you through all of your tough times as best they can. It might feel like your all alone and that there's nothing anyone can do to help and tha you ned him there. You don't. I was in a similar situation with my ex although he didn't hve an ex that was constantly pregnant. You don't say how far gone she is and how long you 2 have been together. If they coincide definately leave him. If you can't do it face to face just up and leave and tell your family not to tell him where you've gone.
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