A
male
age
30-35,
*JCx93
writes:I need help, I am in love with this beautiful girl that i've been dating for a year now, although her parents doesnt let her see me anymore, im 16 years old and she is 15. i can see her parents are just protecting her and dont want her to get hurt, but i love her and i would never hurt her. i need help to convince her parents that they can trust me. please help anything to tell her parents. Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, xJCx93 +, writes (9 July 2010):
xJCx93 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thnx so much you too i will try both, anything that will get them to trust me and see that she is safe with me!
A
reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2010): I'm the same age as you and my parents aren't trusting of any guy that comes around me. I remember when I first started dating my current boyfriend, my parents wanted him nowhere near me, and he really had to prove himself to them. Like, he would plan things for both our parents and us to do so we can all get to know each other and as my parents started loosening up, he let them know that we'd be dating on their terms. It was a lot, but he thought I was worth it. Now, you're going to have to decide if this girl is worth jumping through hoops for and do things to show her parents that you have the best and utmost intentions. It sounds old school, but hey, the old school type courting process is kind of romantic. Good luck, hon!
...............................
A
male
reader, C. Grant  +, writes (6 July 2010):
 You can't *tell* her parents anything. But you can show them. Don't give them anything to worry about. If you want to see her, do it at her home so that they always know where she is. Mind your manners, speak to them politely but look them in the eye. Over time, if they see that you're quality, they'll relax.
This, by the way, is what my daughter's boyfriend has been doing for the last year or so. Having been a teenage boy myself, I initially didn't trust him as far as I could throw him. But he's persuaded me that my daughter is safe with him.
...............................
|
