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writes:hello all, I am a 16 old gurl that went for a doctor visit for 4 times, he is nice, loving and gentle doctor. now and these days, I think about him much and wish to go for a visit. is that normal? am I in love or I love the way he touches me?Please help me to understand it
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (11 July 2015):
 Where were you when I was 16 Y.O. and wanted to play "Doctor" with any girl who would consent to meet me in the back seat of my 1956 Pontiac???? (P.S. None did (consent).)
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reader, RubyBirtle  +, writes (11 July 2015):
Hey sweetie,
What you're feeling is totally normal. You're not in love but have a crush on someone. And this is very common in all humans - especially teenagers. It's how teenagers learn how to manage their romantic and sexual emotions. (And learn the hard lesson that they can't date everyone they want)
And it's very common to have a crush on a doctor. This is because doctors (at least the ones who are good at their job) give us their undivided attention, are friendly and caring and make people feel at ease. They have many qualities that people find attractive. Lots of people get crushes on teachers for the same reason.
So don't worry that you're not normal. But unfortunately you can't do anything about this crush except to "worship him from afar". You're too young at the moment to make moves on adult men and doctors aren't allowed to get involved with young patients.
But you are totally and utterly normal.
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