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I need advice on whether I should go out with a person I have been out with before.

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Question - (31 March 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 April 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 13-15, JakeB2611 writes:

I went out with his girl for about 4 months but then we broke up, now she keeps sending me texts saying that we should go out again but I'm not sure if I want to anymore. I need advice on whether I should go out with a person I have been out with before!!!

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A female reader, bubbloo24 Isle of Man + , writes (1 April 2008):

bubbloo24 agony auntWell, she's your ex for a reason, what is that reason?

If it was she who ended it last time, you need to think to yourself whether you really want to go through that again if she changes her mind on dating you later on in the relationship.

And if it was you who ended it, remember the reason why you ended it and whether you think you can work past that.

In my opinion, if you're really not sure about going out with her, trust your instincts and tell her it's not what you want.

You should decide on goin out with her by:

-Thinkin about whether you enjoyed your last relationship with her

-How it ended and for what reason

-If you are SURE you want to go out with her

Have some time to think whether this is REALLY what you want and not that you are being, in a way, forced to go out with her.

Take care, I hope this helps.

xx

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A female reader, Aly Jane United States + , writes (1 April 2008):

Aly Jane agony auntIf you want to go out again, let this girl know, she's definitely wanting to get something started. If you two had similar interests and chemistry it will work out.

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