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lostinlove1991
writes:There is this girl at work that I really like. I have been so close to asking her out on 2 occasions but both times I have mucked up and not bothered for fear of rejection, all people I have asked have said you never now until you ask. And trust me I really want too but am too unsure of what to say to her. Basically I am unsure if she likes me back. When we work together and we stand behind the tills together even if there is plenty of room around she chooses to stand very close to me and often her body is touching mine, I do the same back as I am trying to make it clear I like her to see how she reacts so that I can determine whether to ask her. Maybe a week or so ago her ex came into our work with another of his friends, as another colleague was walking through the boys were putting on sarcastic comments saying lets go and see..(and then my name). Does this mean that she has been talking about me and also does it mean she’s been saying positive things about me? Then last weekend when I was on my lunch a group of her girlfriends came in and were asking for me, could this mean similar to the above? But the thing that confuses me the most is one of the guys who were saying to go and see me the other time came in again, but this time on his way out he shouted my name and then her name followed by really likes you but I didn’t know what to say so the rest of that afternoon was filled with an awkward silence. The thing is she blushes easy anyway but when he said this she went really red and didn’t deny it, she looked as if she was going to cry.I have now just said to myself I need to act on this as it is true, if I don’t try I could miss out. I just really wanted you guy’s opinions.- thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2007): having an intimate relationship with a co-worker can be such a tricky thing because what if the two of you fight and then have to work together the next day. also there is the issue that the two of you could have too much fun on a date and nine months later she's beating the hickory sticks out of you because you got her pregnant. my best advice would be to wait until you get fired from your job or get promoted to parking lot manager and then pursue a relationship with this gal. good luck with your decision.
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reader, Somethingeasy  +, writes (26 December 2007):
 Dude, do yourself a favor dont think about. One day you guys will part ways and your still to nerveous thinking about it that you will never ask, and you will kick yourself in the ass.
Taken from personal experience, she likes you, you just have to make the first move.
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reader, juliemc  +, writes (26 December 2007):
Sounds to me like this girl does like you. Being a female myself, at times when i was younger i've had eyes for someone but not told them....although my mates too, were quick to hint it to him lol. Thats what mates do.
Try just saying something simple like "was gonna pop for a drink after work on Friday, don't suppose you fancy joining me for a bit of company?"
If she really likes you she'll say yes.
If she likes you but is busy, she'll say she can't make it but maybe another time.
If she isn't interested in that way, she'll just say she's busy but sorry.
You've got nothing to lose, so good luck.
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