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writes: I am 18. I have a serious problem. I fell in love with very very pretty girl but she has a boyfriend that she met after me. I think she likes me more than him. Why is she not choosing me to be her boyfriend? And what am I going to do?
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reader, Delila +, writes (3 September 2005):
You really feel like kicking yourself for not getting the girl. You might end up having to accept the fact that you can look but you can't touch, not if you are a good friend.
If your friend really likes this girl even if they break up, I think, if you want to stay loyal to your friend you will stay away from her.
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reader, pops +, writes (2 September 2005):
She may not want to date someone who is as serious about a relationship as you appear to be? Some people just want to live life a little, date many people, do new things, and concentrate on lots of new experiences before getting serious, usually in their late twenties. Talk to her about your feelings, of course, but be prepared to hear that she is not interested in a serious commitment, and wants to play the field. That does not mean you are inadequate in any regards! Timing is always a factor in love. Sorry it isn't working for you, yet.
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reader, lovelyp +, writes (2 September 2005):
If you really love her, you should wait for her.
Someday, she will know how much you love her.
If she likes you then she will come back to you.
He met her after you, right? Did you always keep contact with her? Maybe she chose him because at that time you weren't there. Think about it. I think you still have a chance. Just wait till she break up with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2005): You should wait for her if you really love her.
I think some day, she will know how much you love her.
I think that she likes you too but maybe she chose him because he's always beside her. Do you think that you tried really hard to make her your girlfriend? Did you always contact her? Sometimes, girl can't say about what they feel. Think about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2005): I think that you should tell her how you feel and sort it together. If she does like you more than her boyfriend then she'll dump him for you. If not then you'll get over it in time and you might fall in love with someone who likes you as much back.
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