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writes:im 18 and my boss is 35 married with 2 sons i mite be pregnant and he wants me to get an abortion but i want to keep the baby i cant quit my job coz i signed a contract for 3 years i took a test it sed not pregnant but my period is very late. do i dump him or what????? he doesnt want to be there for the baby at all but i am going to keep the baby i cant kill my unborn child ,No way!help!!!please
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reader, Jessamy +, writes (27 November 2006):
First, yes you can quit your job, contract or no contract. Your Boss has abused his position of authority, and taken advantage of you. As far as I know, this is not legal, and is a perfectly good reason for you to leave. If he says that you have to stay, threaten to report him to a higher authority. The contract is no longer valid.
I have no respect for a man who would cheat on his wife, take advantage of a much younger person who works for him, and then fail to support her when she needed him most. Yes, for God's sake, dump him! He is bad for you. Don't let him get away with it anymore.
As for the rest of it- have you taken more tests? first, find out if you are really pregnant. It is possible that you have simply missed a period due to stress or weight loss. Take more pregnancy tests, or even better, go to see a doctor. Don't worry, he or she will be confidential.
IF you are pregnant, I suggest talking to your parents or others who you can trust before making any big decisions. If you don't feel that abortion is an option, as 'helpful girl' pointed out, there is the possibility of adoption. If you want to keep your baby, make sure you keep friends and family who can support you close around you. You can do it, you will be okay.
But whatever happens, leave your job, and leave your boss. Be strong!
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reader, Dr Pete  + ♥, writes (27 November 2006):
 Well, you can not be contratually obliged to work for a company for THREE YEARS, so you are wrong there.
If your lover is disrespecting you, then I suggest you wait until you are sure you are pregnant and then go and ruin his life by telling his wife. Your lover will be financially responsible for your child. And if you are sure you want to keep it, you might as well get the financial support you are entitled to - you'll need it, after all.
Good luck.
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reader, helpful girl +, writes (27 November 2006):
 well if you cant do it then why ask for help? i say seriously you lucky sod id do anything to be pregnant off my man who has had a versetermy! but if it is just the fact of an abortion there is other things like adoption e.g. but if you do want to keep it then go ahead and do so, but if i may ask please make sure you are finacially as well as house hold fit to take care of the baby! if you are then whats stopping you?! NOTHING
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