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writes:im a 17 year old virgin, im straight, but like to mastrbate to gay/bisexual porn, recently i hav been putting things up my ass 2 help me cum, it feels so great, but im worried i am becoming gay. I hav dremt about having gay sex. wot shud i do? how can i stop this feeling
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2008): dude i so the same thing, only im 16, its just a fantasy and not real so dont sweat it! ;]
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reader, Carbon  +, writes (20 August 2008):
i have done hte exact same things..i believe im straight, but im confused and dont know, personally i have stuck something in my butt, but i didnt get any sensation or anything...
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): Don't worry. It sounds to me like it's just a fantasy. If you aren't interested in men sexually than you're not gay. Fantasies allow people to go where they wouldn't go in real life. Nobody gets hurt and who's to know? Only you. If you enjoy what you're doing then why should you deprive yourself of a bit of pleasure? Women often fantasise about being with another woman and watch lesbian porn. Does this mean that they're lesbians? No, it doesn't. They're exploring another side to themselves. We've all got one. You're also still young and you're hormones are still all over the place. Give it some time and you may start feeling attracted to men but then again, you probably won't. If you've never had any inkling to be with men then I can't see it happening in the future. Once your hormones settle down the idea of gay porn might become a total turn off and you find that you can only enjoy heterosexual or lesbian porn. .
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2008): this does not mean you are gay. I am however an openly gay 15 year old kid how once thought I was straight, I used to masturbate to women and all that shit, but I slowly started to find women less and attractive. Then while on a porn site I opened a gay porn video and that's when I decided I was gay. And that's all before I was 14. So if you have no desire to do men then you are probably not gay. The moment you do get that desire that's when you should questian your sexuality. And if you are gay be proud a d find a cute boyfriend and show him off to the world.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): one time I was looking for something to masturbate to...I finally did. Then a gay/bi porn came on and I continued till I nutted. That made me question my sexuality too...I'm still going through it. Note I've seen gay things and got horny but I have no intrest in having sex with a dude. I've stuck things up my butt to see what pleasure gay people get out of it never did l.I have a girl friend and I used to draw dicks on everything. Could I be gay
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2008): if your not having sex with men and have no desire to have sex with men in real life its a fantasy, your not gay
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008): I masturbate to girl on girl porn more than heterosexual porn. girls turn me on more sexually but i could never fall in love with a woman. i just find girls more sexually appealing. im so in love with my boyfriend and he does amazing things to me in bed. his care and passion for me is what turns me on about him. but when im by myself, girls with dildos get me off the fastest. hmmph. whatever. any thoughts?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2007): Listen, all the gay people on here are going to say you're gay, and all the straight men who have had bi-fantasies will say you are straight, at the end of the day its up to you, just don't be afraid to be who you are gay or straight, have you ever had more than sexual fantasies for men, or on the other hand have you ever had feelings for girls. You're 17 and its natural to be sexual confused, more people are then you think, its one of the huge secrets in peoples lives.If you like the gay porn, keep doing it, if it makes you feel cheap, it could just be a quick thrill, sometimes people get off on things that make them confused.Hope this helps, but don't be scared, just relax and let you who you are come out, maybe there is even no such thing as gay or straight...who knows look up pansexual or pomosexual.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007): I get off by gay porn a couple of times a month, I consider myself straight though. I'm 20 years old and have had sex with women and men. I consider myself straight.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007): i went through a similar phase ie crushes on girls gay/bi fantasies etc and i have come to the conclusion that i am str8 cos i havent ever fallen in love with a man i think that the main attraction of gay porn is that its still considered a taboo in this "tolerant" society but like you said u are a virgin so dont make any rash decisions over ur sexuality until ur sure what u want and trust me sex is so much better with sum1u love so dont do it out of desperation but that a different topic altogether lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2007): this does not mean u r gay; it may just mean u r interested in gay porn, think if u wld rather have public sex with a man or a woman. ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007): Many straight men have feelings like this its perfectly normal it doesnt nessaserily mean youre gay. its probebly just a fantasy youre having
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007): it does not nesasseraly mean your gay they may just be fantasies its normal to have same sex fantasies
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2007): Hi, to reply ot you i am a 15 year old male, and i have been having the same feelings as yo, i have a had crushes on 2 girls in the last year, and have always hoped for more then friendship wiht them, but i find my self exclusivly masturbating to gay porn, and when not on a cmoputer, to gay fantasies, but latly i have been more intwersedted in bisexual ponr, pleas epost back if anyone knows what this means
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007): i have been going through this exact stage that u are descibing, the only thing is im still confused and this stage has lasted about 7 years. who knows when i will find the answers i am looking for, G-d knows!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2007): i'm also 17, male.
had straight sex plenty of times.
although i have thought about gay sex on several occasions, and also used to get off on gay/bi porn.
to be honest i think it's just a phase, the idea of gay sex will most likely sicken you in a month or so.
unless of course, you are gay.
who knows.
maybe i am.
i'm still young.
just go with the flow
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2007): you are still a virgin so until you have sex with a man or woman you cant say what you are, you maybe bi-sexual which im my opinion i think thats what you will end up being. i started getting turned on by women and thought i was gay, i have since had a few experinces with women but it didnt really do anything for my like a man dos. you may br the same but until you've tried both wont know. and now one should judge you for being bi-curios either. its ok for women to get off on watching lesbian porn and it should be ok for men to watch gay porn too. good luck and i hope u find your true sexuality what ever that my be. all i can say is make sure your happy xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2007): you are still a virgin so until you have sex with a man or woman you cant say what you are, you maybe bi-sexual which im my opinion i think thats what you will end up being. i started getting turned on by women and thought i was gay, i have since had a few experinces with women but it didnt really do anything for my like a man dos. you may br the same but until you've tried both wont know. and now one should judge you for being bi-curios either. its ok for women to get off on watching lesbian porn and it should be ok for men to watch gay porn too. good luck and i hope u find your true sexuality what ever that my be. all i can say is make sure your happy xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2007): Okay. My opinions are going to be wildly unpopular but hear it goes.I think you're just confused. You seem to want both things (women, men) since you have viewed bi porn - and I'm assuming you've also viewed straight porn also. So here's a question: does a gay man watching straight porn make him straight? No. And neither does a straight man watching gay porn make him gay. I have in the past (when I was in my early teens) involved myself in homosexual activities. But today I am straight. I love and adore women and only want to be with women - but there was a time when I didn't really know what was going on - and I liked what I was doing at the time. I don't regret doing it. I share this with you because I want you to know that you DO have a choice. IF you want to be gay, then you can. IF you want to be straight, then you can. You need to make up in your mind what you want in a relationship - male or female and determine if being gay or straight is going to help you reach that goal. But make the decision based on your own beliefs and morals and no one elses. That way, if you have troubles with the decision you made you can only blame yourself. And IF you're a Christian, pray.Just my opinion. Not wildly popular - I'll probably get attacked for it but...
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2007): Being straight or gay isn't a choice. It sounds like you say you're straight because that's what you want to be or that is how you would like to see yourself, however it doesn't work like that. Honestly, do you find females attractive - can you imnagine kissing a girl or having sex with a girl? If you can then maybe you are bisexual, but if it is really just men that interest you then you are probably gay.
It sounds to me like you're gay. I went through similar things when I was your age, and I'm gay.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (1 August 2007):
 You may be.
Dont hate it like FBK said learn to love whatever you are
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (1 August 2007):
 Learn to love yourself no matter what your orientation. It does sound like you are gay.
-FBK
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