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writes: okay, i am so angry right now because my boyfriend seems to be mad at me because i didnt want to give him oral tonight at his house. it was kinda late and i had to leave so i could get home at a decent time but he wanted me to stay and kept kissing me and stuff. he fingered me early on when we got to his house and it was all fine, then after he didnt act into doing anything more he was all cuddly, keep in mind we havent had intercourse, we're waiting for marriage but we have a very good relationship, this is the first time i havent been able to talk to him about something. anyways i told him i had to get home and i could tell he was frustrated but when i asked him he acted like he was fine. i dont know what to do because i feel bad yet im also angry that he would act that way because i always thot he was different then his friends. i hate giving oral too, i hate swallowing and the whole thing is horrible but dont know how to tell him or how else to pleasure him, any advice would be great!!! thanx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2007): There's male comic or somebody who has a routine that goes "yes, we want oral sex, and we want it EVERY TIME!" Guys just do, especially if you're not having conventional intercourse. If you're taking and not giving you're skating on the edge. Talk to your guy. Would he settle for manual? How about oral with a condom ... would that work for both of you? If you want this to be a "forever" thing, you need to learn to communicate and to please one another in mutually acceptable ways. Both of you.
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