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female
age
18-21,
anonymous
writes:Recently I've noticed I get really wet down there when me and my boyfriend are like talking about doing something, but when like theres actual contact down there, it feels dry. Why do I get dry when I was so wet before?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2008): Hi Hunny
Annalisa has given good advise love I have found you a link...TAKE NO NOTICE OF THE FIRST BIT IT WONT APPLY!!!!!As Im 1000% sure your are not menopausal!!!!!!:}
http://www.womens-health-concern.org/help/focuson/focus_vaginaldryness.html
read futher down hunny it explains quite alot... ok hun TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, Annalisa +, writes (28 March 2008):
 Friction with his dry hands or penis will dry up your lubrication. To keep getting wet enough for comfort, you need lots of clitoral stimulation and whatever else might turn you on enough to reach orgasm.
I suspect you go for intercourse too soon and/or he's not very good at helping you stay turned on and reaching orgasm.
To be honest, sexual intercourse is the shorter and most 'boring' part of sex! Although sometimes streight sex can be really hot, most women need time to get there. Besides, why have sex that either ends or gets tiring within 15 minutes, when you can make love for hours?!
A question, though: are you relaxed enough with him?
If you feel self-conscious or don't know him very well, you might not be able to let go and enjoy making love with him.
If this is the issue, get to know him better, talk, go out and have fun. When you feel ready for sex, make sure you are not ovulating and that he wears a condom, then just enjoy yourself! Remember that the mind is your greatest erogenous zone! Concentrate on what is happening, squeeze your vaginal muscles to help blood and fluid to the area, immagine your body getting aroused and don't be afraid to take charge.
I hear some girls just expect sex to be good. But the fact is, if you're not active within it, you might never experience an orgasm!
God bless you and good luck!
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