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I love my husband but I can't trust him any more. What can I do to regain that trust?

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Question - (9 February 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 February 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have been married for 3 years, however i feel my husband is not in love with me anymore, He hardly ever pays any attention to me and on the odd occasion he does want to have sex, i feel that that is all it is - that he just wants sex - not that he wants to be intimate with me personally. I know that he has used porn in the past and when i found out he promised not to again, however i know that he has been again recently which has caused a row and we are barely speaking to each other.

He is always telling petty lies to me which makes me suspicious of what else he is lying about. I love my husband and i think the world of him however i dont trust him and need to feel that this is a two sided relationship as i cant carry on as we are.

What should i do?

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A female reader, af_jw2006 United States +, writes (9 February 2007):

I am a man and I will give it to from that side. Sit down and tell him that he can tell you anything. You love him and want him to be happy. If one day him happy means not being with you then tell you. Be prepared for any answer. If he needs spice in your sex life tell him you will do whatever he wants. In return some days he needs to do what you want. Communicate! Counseling not the answer. They will reccommend divorce and that is not the answer until you try some things.

Good Luck

Let me know if you need more advise.

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A male reader, Ponungalungb United States +, writes (9 February 2007):

Ponungalungb agony auntYou're awfully young to be suffering through a one-sided marriage. You both need to see a marriage counselor if you think your marriage is worth saving.

Good luck!

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