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female
age
13-15,
anonymous
writes:im going out with a boy who i do fancy and we get on like a house on fire. but be4 my boyfriend i liked another lad.i just cant get this otherlad out my head i think about him all the time and i love him so much but we are really shy with eachover so nothing would really happen.im stuck though i dont no what to do.me and my boyfriend are great together.should i carry on with my relationship or finish it and tell the guy my true feelings for him as he still likes me too. thanks x
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reader, EllenMF  +, writes (9 January 2008):
 the most important thing is that you are happy
u say you love ur boyfriend... okay but does he make you happy?
u can't get this guy out of your head.. okay but does he make you happy?
i'm not talking bout goofing around i'm talking really happy... what does it mean to you to be REALLY happy.... then find your way from there
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2008): Think about it carefuly. I've been there before. Talk to the other guy and tell him how you feel. But i really think that you should stay with your boyfriend if you love him that much.
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reader, El Dente +, writes (7 January 2008):
 Stay wil the the current guy. You dont know for sure what the other guy will say and if you dump your current boyfriend in the hope of asking this other guy out then you may be disappointed with nowhere else to go. Play it safe.
PM me if you want to talk some more...
El Denté
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reader, chica_23  +, writes (5 January 2008):
It all depends on the way u feel. Does your relationship have any passion? or is it just wat you would call the "ideal" relationship? if thats the case then go with the other guy, because u arent dedicated to ur bf. one of the beuties of a relationship is the roller coaster it takes you on, dont let the oppurtunity pass.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey thank you for your help its set my mind more straight. holly xx
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reader, Uraz  +, writes (4 January 2008):
 You should stick with your nice boyfriend and get the other guy out of your mind. Of course if you can.
But...the fact that your heart is capable of havings feelings towards a second guy, means you are not in love with your boyfriend and something is missin in him or in this relationship.
Would you like to carry on with someone you are really not in love with...
You should not stay with a boyfriend for having great time, you have to have better, deeper reasons.
So whether or not the second guy is there for you or not, review your current relationship for the future.
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (4 January 2008):
 if you have a steady boyfriend who you care for then i would say stick with him, because if this guy ends up dumping you after a coupel of days [sorry worse case scenario here] then your left with nothing. keep the other guy as a friend.
good luck
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