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I love my bf so much but I am attracted to his best friend, too! What should I do?

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Question - (16 October 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 October 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I'm 26 and in love with a guy who's been through a lot of things with me. We're serious, and have even talked about getting married. The only problem I have is, that no matter how in love with him I seem to be, I can't stop a very strong attraction I have to his childhood best friend. I know we could never and would never pursue a relationship together, but I can't seem to do anything about this attraction I've felt to him since I first met him 3 1/2 years ago. The attraction is not just physical in nature. Somebody, anybody, please tell me what I can do.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2006):

why is it that i understand what your going through..its the most confusing situation..it makes you ask urself a ton of questions..u kno that u love ur boyf...u also no dat his best mate relates to u in many ways..bu bottom line is...u have a caring man by ur side..uve been thru a lot togetha..u cud risk it for a 'moment' wid his best mate..but that moment cud cost u a lifetime of happiness...freind x

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A female reader, lellow +, writes (17 October 2006):

remember your in love with your boyfriend and all you feel is lust for his friend, if you really love your boyfriend then tell yourself that everyday and say to yourself that your boyfriends friend is just a friend and that he sees you in the same ways as this. x:X:x

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