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writes: I feel very foolish to be doing this, but I am desperate for answers..I am 62, quite young for my age and have raised 5 children and am now raising 1 disabled teenage grandaughter. I have had some disaterous marriages, my last 2 husbands died unexpectdly. I am going blind and had to retire as a nurse.I met a wonderful man who made my life complete,we bought a house together and it was so good to have a life for me. Within 6 months he became cold, controlling , and generally made me reach a point of a nervous breakdown...I love him and he says he loves me and sometimes it is perfect. But he has a very controlling personality and makes me feel so bad that the only way I see out is to get away from him.Am I wrong to think we n\might could work this out if I tried harder?
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reader, shania  +, writes (27 November 2005):
 Why should you try harder? This man of yours is a control freak.He nearly drove you to a nervous breakdown,he is cold and then he has the nerve to say he loves you? Thats not love.He sounds to me that he is selfish,self centred and self absorbed in himself and i would find it a load of old b.....ks if he is like that because of his childhood.This man is making you miserable and you probably think he is better then nothing but believe me he isnt! Get out of this relationship now before he destoys any self worth that you have left.Cant you ask any of your children for help? Sell the house,lose all links with him.Please dont think its your fault,it isnt.Men like him always make their partners believe its their fault,that your not understanding enough.This man wants a stepford wife! Leave him.
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