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writes: Well heres my problem, I'm in love with a man, he's 23 years older (Not married thank god), we hang out online and have only met face to face once. He and my parents are good friends, and I plan to move to his state when I'm old enough. I know I'm in love with him, but I really can't firmly say he likes me in that way. I know he's fond of me as a friend, but I don't know if he would want to take it farther. Oh, he's Asian and I'm American.. just so you know I don't see that making a differance since neither of us are racialist.So heres my question: Should I tell him how I feel at some point? Or shall I leave it be and keep our tight friendship just how it is?Thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys! You're all totally right I should stop mooning over something so impossible, and yes I'm really young. It was really stupid of me to even think it may work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2006): Hi,you do not say how old you are. I hope you are not a minor at least. You are obviously infatuated with this guy, whom you only saw once and are not sure if he sees youthat way. If he's a friend of your parents' I'd suggest you let it go. Read my take on age gap here: www.relationship-affairs.com/age-gap.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2006): no no no, this is a total don't go there, im guessing by the age gap you are much younger, your also insisting you love him, you may have a major crush but it won't be love, maybe your easily impressed by him, but what happens when he finds someone his own age that he loves, im sorry but he won't think twice about you. good luck x
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reader, camille  +, writes (5 September 2006):
 Leave it be. I'm reading between the lines here, but guessing that you're really young. This is probably a crush although it may feel like you're in love. 23 years older is too old when you are still young and it would make things very tricky with your parents. All this talk of moving yet you've only met face to face once?! The race is of no relevance to the situation so the very mention of it was telling of your age and the way you see the world. Hang out with friends your own age and maybe you'll find a guy you like who's also nearer your age.
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