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writes: I have two friends, I'll call them Jack and Sarah. We're best friends and its always just been us three since we started high school. This year they started dating in January. Jack was completely in love with Sarah but Sarah never really liked him. Sarah was really horrible about Jack to me and always made him look stupid. He'd tell her how much he loved her and she'd just laugh about it to me after. To be honest I've always preferred Jack deep down, so after three months I'd had enough and I told him. He was furious and they had a massive argument, but not over what I told him. He promised he wouldn't tell her and never will. And I know he wont. But last night they made friends. And it really upset me because she's started making a fool out of him again. I don't know why hes letting her do this to him, and its really upsetting me to see it. Please help.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (13 May 2007):
 Sounds like Jack has decided to forgive Sarah. Although you told him what was happening with the best of intentions I strongly advise not doing stuff like this again. He could easily have told her what you'd said and she could've denied it and said you were jealous and then you would have lost both of your best friends. If you're frustrated by the way that Sarah treats Jack I would be much more inclined to tell her that you don't like it since he's a good friend and that if she doesn't like him why is she bitching?
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