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writes: hi, i lose my viginity to a guy i barely know, we dated several times and he is expeienced he knows how to make me feel good, then that happened, i even didn't bleed a lot cause he is so good at it, now he is going to leave me cause he said he need to go back to school, and he loan the tuition from the bank he have to go.(i am 21ys old)now i really feel guilty and am i doing something wrong? should i stop seeing him right now? i know i like him but i feel bad cause i think he doesn't feel the same way to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe dated like 4 months thank you all your reply i really appreciate them thank you all for the help!
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reader, zahradil  +, writes (20 July 2009):
 HI, it's bad cs most of guys do that, but here's ur chance to make it up on ur self, leave him before he does sth bad to u, or leave you first, move on ,take it as a lesson ,and learn from it,and don't trust anyguy this easy, don't give your body this easy, he has nothing to lose but you do.
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reader, guillaume  +, writes (20 July 2009):
 Hi,
I don't think you should feel bad about things. You enjoyed the moments and felt really good. OK, he is leaving now so perhaps put this one down to experience and keep the pleasant memory. You both enjoyed your time together from what you say, you had a good first time experience and remember him for that! G xx
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reader, flicka23  +, writes (20 July 2009):
 Hi, I can relate to what happened to you. You feel that you have given to a person something precious who does not seem to recognise it's value. For this young man, you were only another girl whom he has dated and you are hurt because for him you are not special. You should not feel guilty, you did it while you were fully aware.
I think that the young man does not seem to have strong feelings for you. If you continue to see him, obviously you will have sex butin the long run you may start to feel that sex is there but there is no love and you will be more hurt. So you have to decide what you want
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (20 July 2009):
 why are you feeling guilty you said it was good you enjoyed yourself. You should not stop seing him if you like him and have a good time hes leaving so try and have as mutch fun with him as you can untill then he could be the best lover you ever have who knows, In that states we would call that a summer fling. dont feel guilty either your a grown woman do what you want,good luck
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reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (20 July 2009):
 Unfortunately i feel this man used you he got what he wanted and is off the scene now sorry!
These things do happen and when they do they are not nice to deal with dont feel bad you did nothing wrong you put your trust in someone you thought had feelings for you too that is not your fault you got it wrong, people can be very reassuring when they set their minds to getting what they want.
If he were to feel the same way about you he would have told you and not been as cold as he is showing you now maybe it is best to forget him put it down to one of life's mistakes and learn from it sorry you feel so hurt and used.
Gina
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