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writes: My fiance has found out that I have sexual fantasies about women and now he thinks I am gay. He doesn't believe me when I tell him that it is just a fantasy. I don't think I could ever be with a woman physically, but I do enjoy fantasising about them. I have never questioned my sexuality before but all his questioning is making me question myself! I feel like if we broke up I would just find another man.
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reader, Your big sis +, writes (8 June 2005):
 Having a fantasy and experiencing the actual act are definitely two seperate things. I've experienced fantasies myself but I would never think of acting on them. The beauty of a fantasy is that it could never happen. If you act out a fantasy, then it's not a fantasy anymore and does not have the same effect it had because it happened. I keep my fantasies intact because it helps you out in the bedroom sometimes when you need that extra little push into organism. I don't believe you are a lesbian. Otherwise you would have tried sex with another woman already if you were. Try explaining this to your fiancee. Hopefully he understands.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2005): it is normal and socially acceptable.
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reader, envy +, writes (18 May 2005):
These fantasies you are having are all a part of growing up and perfectly normal.
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