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30-35,
*enevieve
writes:thre is this guy that i met and he is 17 and i'm 15.he is really cute and i like him. we went out for 2 days and then i broke up with him cause he kept ansking me to hve sex with him and i do not feel like doing that right now and when i tell him that if he really wants to do that he can find someone else he says he only wants me cause i'm still a virgin. and also he is going to jail for 3 months. after we broke up the first time he went out with my freind and she told me things which he has not told me yet .i like him but i want to trust him first. so what do i do help me
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reader, genevieve +, writes (12 June 2008):
genevieve is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you guys so much. i 've stopped calling him and told him to get his life together and get someone else who will fall for that crap
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (10 June 2008):
 Uncle Sneaker is right
This guy is an A class jack***
There are so many reasons to say why not to, but ill just say dont to make it simple
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008):
sweetheart at your age ,ill be honest. dont do it with him or anyone for that mater. most of the people you will meet at this age wont be with you long enough to marry you and u dont want to through your precious moments to just any cutie bloke. wait a while.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): please do not go after this guy. he wants only sex. never ever trust this fellow. I think you have the comonsence to understand that. I am 65 year old grandpa just advising you.
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reader, M! +, writes (10 June 2008):
 "he says he only wants me cause i'm still a virgin" (your words)
Thats a big red flag! So thats the only reason why he wants you? just because your a virgin. You sure got yourself a keeper. (sarcastic)
That obviously shows that you cant trust him and that he doesnt respect you.
Forget about this guy and find yourself some one who loves you for you, not for sex.
Because I'm 100% sure after he uses you he'll leave you and move on to the next virgin. and the next and the next, etc.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (10 June 2008):
 Hey sweetness,
Uncle Sneaker is dead on. You can't trust this dude... he's kind of sketchy and has shown you what he really wants out of you. Even if he pretends to be a nice, trusting guy - YOU'LL KNOW what he's really after. Save your virginity for someone who isn't after cherries to pop. This guy may be cute, but he's a little bit of a jerk.
I would wait for a gentleman! You know you deserve it.
Good luck, sweetness!
xx India
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reader, CharmmyKitty +, writes (10 June 2008):
 There's nothing to even think about here!
He's clearly told you that he's ONLY interested in sex, and ONLY with you because you're a virgin!!
You'll have to trust me that NO man who cares about you will ask you for sex (let alone your virginity) after 2 days! As much as you might like him, you can never trust him. These guys are easy to like, because they're charmers, but it's not real, so don't buy into it.
You deserve to give your virginity to someone who respects you and truly cares about you. I deeply regret the way I lost my virginity. But you can never get it back. So please, from someone who's been there, treat it with care.
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reader, Uncle Sneaker +, writes (10 June 2008):
 It's quite simple really.
Never do anything you don't feel comfortable doing - and it's not just a matter of you not being old enough.
If he can't show you enough respect to consider your feelings instead of only thinking about his own desires, then he doesn't really care for you at all. You are quite right: you can't trust him. If he was any sort of decent person he wouldn't keep pushing you to do something you're not ready to do.
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