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writes:hi, im 16 and theres this bloke i like whos 18. His name is john and its my mums boyfriends son. My mums boyfriend knows i like him and i think he is trying to set me up with him. He has a girlfriend however, but she has cheated on him many times but he still goes back to her. One night when i got a little bit giddy i text him saying i thought he was amazing and that i would never treat him how his girlfriend has. When he first met me, he told his dad i was hot!.. and i thought the same about him. But now i have seen him more and more i have become addicted to him. He is so different to what i would normally go for, but he is really nice to me, he is very chatty and always starts the convosations. Do you think he likes me? or is it better to just leave it?.. as he has been with her for a year now. My mums boyfriend hates his girlfriend and is trying to get rid of her. I want to aswell to have him for myself. Is this selfish?.. She is nasty to him tho but he cant see it. Please help. What shall i do? xx Ashlee xx
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reader, cd206 +, writes (29 March 2007):
 If he's happy with her, however badly she treats him, then you can't interfere. There is a reason that perhaps only the two of them know why he is staying with her. I would put yourself in his girlfriend's position, honestly. How would you feel if someone was trying to steal your boyfriend?
I think the best tactic for you is to tell him you really like him but that you know he has a girlfriend but you wanted him to know that anyway. Then work at keeping him close to you as a friend. Eventually he will wise up to his girlfriend and finish things but if you break them up you're just storing up bad karma for your own relationship.
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