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I like this guy and my friend likes him too. I don't want to ruin my friendship, please help

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Question - (3 May 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 13-15, anonymous writes:

Okayy my friend just confided in me that she lkes this guy but what she doesnt know is that i like him too.

And he likes the both of us but he says he likes me more and he helped with my paper round and he was putting his arm round me and holding my hand. And i really liked it but my friend can be a total b**** sometimes.

And tomorrow i am going round his house he said to see if we can work this out. And i really like him but i dont want to ruin this friendship i have with my friend. Its eating me up inside and cry about it. Thank you x

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A female reader, :):):) United Kingdom +, writes (5 May 2008):

aww sweetheart dont get upset about it you havent done anything wrong!

This situation seems to happen alot. If you like him and he likes you then you should go for it but it would be good if you told your friend beforehand.

Think of it from another view, would she do the same if she was in your position?

She might be a bit upset at first but she'll soon get used to the idea.

You could always set her up with one of his friends?

Goodluck anyway honey

xxx

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A female reader, WiccanWonder United Kingdom +, writes (3 May 2008):

WiccanWonder agony auntTry and explain to your friend, that even if you do date him, you still want to be friends and that even if you both like him doesnt mean that it has to destory a friendship...

I hope this helps

Love & Hugs

good luck

Tasha x

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