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I like this Capricorn guy

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Question - (10 March 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 10 March 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Just a heads up for anyone who doesn't believe in them - This is a question about star signs/zodiacs. I respect a lot of you don't believe in them, but I do. So please don't comment saying what crap it is.

I like this Capricorn guy. He's the definition of Capricorn, I swear, right down to the last word, he's a Capricorn. I like that, but the only problem is, I can't get a hold on whether or not he likes me back.

When we're alone it honestly seems like he does. He plays with my hair, and he plays with my fingers while we talk. He always look into my eyes when he talks to me, and lowers his voice. I don't know why he does that, but I like it. It feels really intimate and private. We play footsie, he's even teaching me how to skateboard, haha. He's a drummer, and when we're listening to a song together, he drums on my knees.

All of that's lovely, but it's when we're in big groups. I know he's not one for big public displays of affection, that's fine, neither am I. But he still sits close to me and puts his arm around me and drums on my knees etc, but other times...he'll be really distant. He'll go quieter than usual, he'll be looking off into space, and won't really seem to notice I'm there. And when I try to talk to him, he replies with short answers. And sometimes when we're texting, he'll just stop replying. And then I won't hear from him for up to three days. He'll stop calling. Stop inviting me round his house. Only for a few days, but still. It's really driving me mad. Why does he do that? What's the deal? Am I wasting my time with him? Or is that just what Capricorn's are like?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2011):

Hey..

I can understand your feelings. I've been through it as well. Btw i am dating a capricorn guy from the last two years and i am really happy with the way he is with me. I am a gemini and people say gemini capricorn dont go along but we really are made for each other.

So, personally, i would advice you to wait for this capricorn guy. He likes you bt he is shy to admit this in front of you. Just like any other typical capricorn. Trust me, it will be worth waiting for. He will take his time in admit that he really likes you but you have to keep up that patience in you if you really wanna date him. So just be his friend and he will gradually fall in love with you. But patience is the key. If you can really wait then go for him.! :)

good luck sweetheart..!!

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A female reader, largentsgirl89 United States +, writes (10 March 2011):

largentsgirl89 agony auntI love astrology!! Find out a lot about yourself from the Zodiac.

WHen is his birthday and when is your birthday? Date, month, year, time (if you know it) and place.

I'll chart you guys if you want. If you don't want to do that, then what is your sign?

I charted me and my fiance, I'm leo and he is libra and we fit perfectly.

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A female reader, largentsgirl89 United States +, writes (10 March 2011):

largentsgirl89 agony auntI love astrology!! Find out a lot about yourself from the Zodiac.

WHen is his birthday and when is your birthday? Date, month, year, time (if you know it) and place.

I'll chart you guys if you want. If you don't want to do that, then what is your sign?

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (10 March 2011):

CindyCares agony aunt Ok, I won't say that astrology is crap. But I will remind you that , if you are an astrology buff, you should already know that the Sun sign is waaay too generic to get

indications about someone's personality. It's necessary to know also his rising sign ( Ascendant ). Also, in astrology what explains and- in theory - predicts a person's love life , and his inclinations and behaviour in matters of the heart, are the sign where the Moon was at the moment of his birth , and also ( very important ! ) his Venus ( which says how he expresses his love, what's his style in romance, what kind of people he is attracted to etc.)

So- even from a strictly astrological point of view, - his being a Capricorn does not says and does not predicts anything, you should know his exact time of birth and calculate his complete horoscope !

Putting aside astrology for a sec,he is sending mixed signals- and mixed signals is very different from green light. The fact that,consciously or not ,he is seeking physical contact means that he is physically attracted to

you- people don't touch what they don't like; but he is also guarding his spaces. Probably he likes you but he does not see you as gf material, or is not ready for a relationship . Or maybe he is not sure how you'd react if he'd make a move.

Give him some more time, encourage him ( subtly please ),flirt a bit. Maybe he needs to make up his mind, or to build up self confidence. But, if after a couple of months, all he does is still drumming on your knees- well, move on, there are other 11 signs in the Zodiac.

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