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I like them both! What should I do?

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Question - (23 December 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 December 2006)
A female age 30-35, *ourtney Lynn writes:

me and my boyfriend have been dating for 11 months. he wrestles and i have a little crush on someone on his team. the boy i have a cruch on likes me too and i flirt around a little bit but nothing serious. i dont know what i am feeling right now because i like them both. what should i do??

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A male reader, jimbo_jones +, writes (24 December 2006):

Do not...I reapeat DO NOT try to get with his teammate. Doing so will, turn teammates and friends against each other, cause lots of talk and rumors, and untimately end up in your being hated by a large number of people. I was in a similar silutation at my old university and ended up becoming public enemy number one for an entire student organization (about 30 people). In high school where everybody knows everybody else, it will only be worse, and your reputation will be trashed through the entire school. My advice is that if you're going to go after another guy, it should be someone less connected to your current bf.

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A female reader, bellachic385 +, writes (23 December 2006):

bellachic385 agony auntJust relax, you may think he is attractive and flirty but the one that you love and are with now is the one you should stay with, if there isnt any problems. Going for this guy would start problems, team problems and you may lose him as a friend. Think before you act unless you are very serious about this 2nd guy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2006):

Please, I will advice that you dont like both, cos that is dangerious, and try to develop more love to the one that love you most nor that you love most.

bext of luck

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