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writes: I am in 8th grade and have a friend in 9th grade... she has a twin brother and I really like him... I've seen him staring back at me and I think he likes me back but I'm not sure. I want to ask her but I don't want things to be weird; especially if he likes me back... Should I ask her or just keep it to myself? Any advice would truly help me... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2018): Maybe you can ask her to introduce you to her brother, and see what happens.
Why should she get upset that you like her brother? Just don't get all caught-up on him; and forget or ignore your friend!
If you and she are just becoming new friends; maybe you should work on that friendship first. It would upset her, if you're only being friends with her to get next to her brother.
Besides, he just stared at you. He might have stared back, because you stared at him first!
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (18 December 2018):
 Guys have "bros before hoes" and girls have "sisters before misters" = friends before girls/guys - neutrally: "mates before dates". Your friendship is more important than a crush on her twin that will pass because of your age.
If you and her brother tried to hang out and it didn't go well, it will make things awkward between all of you. Let it go and keep it to yourself; it will fade.
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