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writes:I am 21 and recently I am just attached with this guy from my university. He is 2 years older than me and we are happily attached for a month already...Recently, he has been really touchy and I am not really that comfortable about it. There was once I wore a very short mini skirt and we were siting by the bay. He started touching my legs and his hands almost got inside my skirt. But he was merely feeling my legs and I thought that it was ok....Until, he forced kiss me in the lift. He hugged me and asked me to kiss him on his lips. I did but he didn't let go and I struggled abit... Mmmm... then the next day he apologised for his actions...Am I consider being molested by him? I do like him but I think that his actions is making me uncomfortable... Is it how it is suppose to be when physical contact gets in place at an early stage in a relationship?I really need some advice here~~~
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah Thanks for all your replies.
Yup I told him yesterday and he apologised to me again and I really appreciate that. I told him girls need a tiny reason make a kiss happen somehow and not to do it just like that. He explained that he is just trying to show his affections towards me as he don't know how to sweet talk.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 If you are uncomfortable then you need to nicely tell him to back off. If you do not, he will assume it's okay with you. Just say something along the lines that you just aren't ready to move to the physical level in your relationship at this time but you are really enjoying getting to know him. Hopefully he'll get the message.
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reader, Entirely Unique  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 In most cases, early in a relationship the physical contact is light and affectionate but then some people do prefer to be abit more heavy and full on.
If you're not comfortable with this I would speak to him, if he likes you too then he will respect you and the way you like to be touched and how often/intense etc.
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