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I like him, but he might be gay...?

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Question - (16 July 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 July 2010)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am in a situation where I am crushing on this guy but I can not tell if he's gay or straight. I can not ask him because I don't want to offend him. Do gay people use words such as fag or homo or do they find these disrespectful and would never say it?

Please help me, I am confused

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2010):

Gays may, or may not, take offence at terms like 'fag' 'homo' 'queer' etc, and may or may not be happy with being described as such. Depends on the person concerned, and whether it's being used in an playful/hostile/affectionate/insulting manner.

As to this guy's sexuality, we've no info at all to go on, you're in a better position to guess than we are! Sexlessintheuk is spot-on: try to get to know him a little better and see where it goes.

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