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writes:rite ill get straight to the point, ive known this girl for a number of years and as times gone on weve got closer and closer, i like her, she likes me, i know this because weve told eachother, 1 problem she has a fella, we both have feelings for eachother and we believe we could be very happy together, and this isnt just a phase, weve felt like this for sometime now and 2nite being valentines nite i turned on the charm like an idiot and we both kissed and i basically stopped us takin it further, realishig it could be a misteke, but im positive shes 'the one' and i dont to what to do! on one hand i dont want her 2 split up with her fella and jepordise their relationship and on the other im thinkin sod that we know that we could have something special and be very happy together and im unsure what steps to take next. any kind of advice for me would be very appreciated
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2008): Wow, deja vu! I went through this situation with my current fiance. We had been friends for awhile, and got a little tipsy together one night, and both admitted that we had feelings for each other. But I had a boyfriend at the time... so a week later I dumped him for my friend. It sucked knowing that I hurt my ex, but I knew my friend and I were perfect together, and we owed it to each other to explore our feelings. Less than two years later we're engaged. She kissed you back, so you obviously know she likes you. Just talk to her. And more importantly, ask her if she'd be willing to break up with her boyfriend so you two could give it a shot. These things do have fairy tale endings sometimes.Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks to the people who replied for me, although its not what i wanted to hear, because deep down we both know it could be good between us, but other peoples point of view can help and i wanted to see what others made of it all,im still abit foggy on the situation, so im gonna wait and see what happens, ill keep you updated,any other responces would be appreciated
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (15 February 2008):
I personally would advise you to look elsewhere coz you are gonna hurt sum1 else in the process.If you really want her,let her sort her personal life then take it from there.If she agrees with you in your thinking let her break off with the other guy 1st.However,when you hook up in such a style owayz remember there's a risk the same thing can happen to you!
Good Luck.
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reader, XxAngelDust89xX  +, writes (15 February 2008):
 What is her take on all of this? Is she willing to leave her man for you? if she is then go for it, but if shes not I wouldnt push your luck.
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