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writes: Usually about every Saturday I go to a club(karaoke) and I have some friends male and female. One guy there he is a really good singer and him and I have done some duets together. I have been told that I sing good as well. I know it might sound weird but I go there with my ex-husband. We are still friends and there is nothing romantic going on but he helps me financially because I am disabled and on a fixed income. Anyway, this guy had been seeing a girl that works there and she has a bit of a speech problem but she speaks pretty well, so my ex was wondering why they were dating and he said that he is quite older than she is. I just said maybe he likes her and doesn't care about that. A few times I started to notice that he was coming in to the club late around 9 p.m. and then I didn't see him there for a while. I also noticed that she was a little sad. So I asked her where he was and she said, "I really don't know." I didn't want to pry anymore because I could see the look on her face. They seemed happy but my ex was thinking that he might have been using her. Well he was gone for some time and then out of the blue he shows up. He had bought another girl in only one time and I thought maybe that would hurt her feelings. And of course my ex was saying negative things about him. So he came over and said hello to us and he was talking to me a lot while he was sitting across from me. He was looking at me and when my ex stepped away to get me a drink he asked if we were together or divorced. I told him yes and that he lives about ten minutes away and helps me with my groceries and takes out my garbage. One night we sang Crazy in Love by Beyonce and he is a good rapper.When we were about to leave he hugged me and kissed my cheek and whispered, "Goodnight babe you sang really good tonight." My ex thinks he was trying to make a move on me and the one reason I wouldn't date him is because I don't want to hurt the other girls feelings. But now just recently he has been coming in with a new girl who is kinda shy and he still talks to me but I miss the attention that he gave me. I even caught him looking over at me while he was sitting with her. Now I feel a little jealous. I don't know if they are just friends because this is the third time he has come in with her. I really like him. He is a nice person and he has a good job.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2013): He may be attracted to you, but if he is not doing something about it, he is not interesting in pursuing you for a relationship, so count your blessings.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2013): He may be attracted to you, but if he is not doing something about it, he is not interesting in pursuing you for a relationship, so count your blessings.He keeps having other girls, so he isn't that into you.You sing well together, you enjoy the company, you probably both find each other attractive, but he is looking for something else...
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reader, agneeman  +, writes (29 July 2013):
 He's such a nice guy that he flaunts new girlfriends at his ex's place of work, and flirts with you while he's with other women. Sounds like a keeper. When's the wedding?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2013):
Hi, it's so fantastic that you and your ex hubby get on so well. My dad and my mum though separated went out together too..
That said . I think your ex is a genuine guy and I also think his words ate very wise.. This guy whom you may like feel is attractive good company good job. He has in a short time had three diffirent ' bows' to his string as my mother used to say.. ( my mum was a little old fashioned god bless her!!)
He seems to string them along. Get tired. Then hey presto like mr magnifico there another babe on his arm .. He see every lady as grass that he needs to mow.. And I'm sorry but here the ' helloo. Earth calling moment'
You would just be a new string to his bow or a new notch on his bedpost.. Don't get used ..
My advice.. Sing with him, be pleasant but stay the devil away..
Take care and keep looking x
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