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writes: I need your advice more than ever this time. I just hurt the man I love the most out of fear. I have never loved anyone like I love this man and it scares me. I am so afraid of rejection, ever since my divorce and the mental abuse this man put me through, that I lied to the man I love and played on his greatest insecurity in order for him to break it off with me.I feel horrible, I want to be with him but I believe he will eventually leave me as well. I have hurt him so bad. I don't know what to do. I want to explain but do not think he will believe me. He feels I have lied to him, and he will not trust me again, and I can't blame him.I want to explain that it is not him, it never was. I am so afraid of feeling anything ever again. I cannot live without this man, he is everything to me, but I cannot expect him to understand what is happening to me, and the fear I feel.Help me Please, I can't eat, sleep, or function. I have lupus and it is playing havoc on my health.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2005): You must sit down and expain to him why you lied and that you felt like you had to lie. And the reasons why you are scared and that you never ment to lie but that you could see no other way out. Explain to him that you cant eat or sleep with out him and make it clare to him that you are so very sorry for lie'n.
BEST FOR LUCK!!
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