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I lied and cheated on her, but she is still with me after 3 years, does this mean she really loves me?

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Question - (18 July 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 July 2008)
A male South Africa age 41-50, anonymous writes:

a friend of mine told me about someone he was so crazy about but he was too scared to make the first move, so when i saw that i just went to her to propose love,my point at that time i was having a girlfriend but couldn't miss someone so cool and beautiful at first i was just trying to prove to my friend that i can get her before him.

as i as dating her i realised she was so much inlove with me and for i was not inlove,time passed by i use to lie to her and cheat on her but she didn't give up on me and now i realised how much she love me i even introduced her to my parents after 2yrs of our relationship.i did this no because i hated her but at that time i was not sure she was going to be with me for such a long and now i do believe that she loves me for me cause i have a not paying job and i don't spoil the way i suppose to spoil a woman but she doesn't care as long as i respect and trully love her.i just want to know if she really love me after every situation i put her through,like is she going to cheat on me as i did to her for revenge.

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A female reader, PsyCookie United States +, writes (18 July 2008):

PsyCookie agony auntIt's so sad that a woman who loves this uncondicionally is still with a kind of guy who is too blind to see this.

After cheating, lying, and making her suffer and seeing no reaction from her besides unconditional love, you worry that she will cheat on you?

Please grow up. Embrace this woman. Tell her you love her and treat her with respect. If you keep on doing what you're doing now you will end up alone.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2008):

With everything that you have said in the question, I see no love at all anywhere.

If you were in love you wouldn't have to ask a question like that.

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A female reader, Lizel South Africa +, writes (18 July 2008):

Lizel agony auntYes,she loves you unconditionally.You know it and you know now that you have stuffed around with the best thing that has ever happened to you,and I think the guilt is killing you inside.If she hasn't cheated on you up till now,she wont.If you really feel anything as a human being,love her,respect her and treat her right from now on or let her go.Haven't you hurt her enough?

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