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*rBrightside90
writes:hello everyone,Ive got myself in this somewhat awkward situation. First of all im a 19 year old male, and still virgin.A few weeks ago I met this Girl and I really like her, we get along quite well. We went out for 2-3 dates and always had a good time and ended up kissing.Now this girl is older than me and sexually experienced. And I lied about me being a virgin because I was quite ashamed, I have been with 2 girls before her and done other sexual activities but no sex because my last girlfriend was 'not ready', So now I feel like this new girl I met might want to have sex with me, and its freaking me out.I really would like to have sex with her, but am I going to dissapoint her? Could I take any anxiety reducing meds before sex or drink alot of alcohol?Im really not sureThansk,
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): If she likes you as much as you like her then just the fact you are making love 2 her is all you need pal ;) chin up and go for it :)
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reader, whiteelephant  +, writes (17 October 2010):
tell her you're a virgin. then tell her she's the prettiest thing you've ever laid your eyes on and you want to make her yours
don't force erections, that will thwart them. you physically can't get them with tension in your body. relax and let yourself know that you don't have to cum, she doesnt either..the point of you being together the first time is that you share a bond you want to celebrate
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2010): Reverse the role. Would you prefer to be lied to or told the truth? You would be flattered that it was her first time and she had the confidence to tell you. Just tell her. Believe me, she will think you are special.
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reader, Ven +, writes (17 October 2010):
Tell her the truth.
You can lie to get sex with a woman you yourself are worried you can't please, or you can be honest with her and not have to worry about the outcome.
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