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I let the love of my life go and didn't even realize it.....

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Question - (17 June 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 June 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I let the love of my life go. I knew there was a better opportunity (work) for him and decided to take myself away from the situation so that he would go and realize that he really did love me and want to be with me forever.

HUGE MISTAKE!! He now has moved on and doesn't want anything to do with me. I don't know how to cope--I thought I was doing the right thing and now I am alone and miserable. I've tried talking to him about the whole situation and he wants me to come visit but I just don't see it serving a purpose unless we are going to work this out....thoughts?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (17 June 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntWhy not go visit? You have nothing to lose and maybe everything to gain. Go and check it out.

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A female reader, x.BrokenxHearts.x United Kingdom +, writes (17 June 2008):

x.BrokenxHearts.x agony auntYou really should go and see him to find out the outcome if you don't go you could you really regret.

Keep me upto date yeah?

Take care.

x

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A female reader, scrazy Canada +, writes (17 June 2008):

scrazy agony auntIf he's invited you to come see him, then you should go. Maybe he wants to see you face to face to talk about your situation.

It sounds like he opened up the way for you to come to him, but you didn't want to.

You should go visit him and tell him how you feel. See if there's a way for you two to work it out - unless he's involved with another woman, then I wouldn't suggest trying to break that up, it would just make things messy.

The only way you're going to get him back is if you fight for your relationship.

xo

scrazy

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