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I lack the confidence to talk to this nice girl I like. Any tips?

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Question - (29 January 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 January 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i am 24 and have not had many girlfriends, my last one was a girl i met on holiday but we have split up, i consider myself reasonably good looking but lack confidence to ask a girl out. there is this girl who i quite like who works in a shop that i am in 2-3 times a week, she seems nice but i dont know what to say to her or how to get her attention please help me,

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A female reader, xkimx United Kingdom +, writes (30 January 2007):

xkimx agony auntjust act cool and ask her hey what you up to this weekend ask her maybe if she wants to go to a party with you then cancel and say partys cancel but maybe you n her can go watch a film your treat but dont be moving to fast play it cool, walk her home and say you've had a nice time see you in work no kisses its to early and work from there get to no eachoother !

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A female reader, dragonette Sweden +, writes (30 January 2007):

dragonette agony auntI don't know what kind of shop she works in, but you can try to strike up a conversation under the pretense that you need help with something related to what they're selling (i.e. "Excuse me, but which spice goes well with this type of fish?" if it's a food store). From there you can probably talk about something else, if she seems interested in talking.

The next time you come in you'll say hi to her and ask how she's doing. Hopefully she will recognize you.

After that it shouldn't be too difficult to ask her out on a date.

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