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I know when you're in love with someone you hope they feel the same but I'm confused because she gives mixed signals all the time.

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Question - (23 November 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 November 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, *eon69 writes:

Hi,

I'm a female that has been in love with my best friend for years. She knows I am and keeps telling me she is straight and has recently started seeing a bloke.

We are very close and kiss, hug and cuddle all the time.

I used to sleep over at her house and share a bed and I use to caress and stroke her bottom and she never told me to stop. One night after we had been out and we shared a bed I took it a step further and did more things to her and she said jokingly that's all I wanted to do, get into her pants.

Over the years I've tried talking about this to her but she says she doesn't want to talk about it, she says she doesn't regret it but she keeps insisting she is straight.

She says if she could feel the same about me she would in a breath but she cant.

I know when you're in love with someone you hope they feel the same but I'm confused because she gives mixed signals all the time. Please help!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2007):

Listen to what she is saying. She loves you as a friend, and wants to keep you as a friend. She gives in to you a little so you will stay, but she does not feel the same way about you. You are like a sister to her, treat her like one.

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