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writes:Ok so me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months I know People say it is not long but we are in love I love him and wouldn't trade him for the world I really want to have sex with him I'm a virgin he is not I don't know how to tell if he wants to have sex with me and even how to change positions I'd we do have sex basicallly I know nothing can someone please help me Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2011): You are in love. I think that's enough within itself to get you through. Let him know that you are unsure and it's your first time but you are still very keen to be with him because you are in love with him. If he's what you say he is, then he will make it as comfortable and as nice for you as he can. Sexual pleasure is not a thing that happens overnight. Sometimes it takes years, even decades for some women to feel comfortable within themselves and know what they like and what pleases them. Don't expect that it's going to be some wonderful, earth shattering experience the first time you do it, cos it won't be. I think enjoy the moment of closeness that you'll share, stay relaxed as possible and don't do anything that you're not comfortable doing. Try finding some books from your library on the art of lovemaking or something. There's plenty of porn sites, like redtube.com and the likes on the internet to show you positions and how to change positions. It's not rocket science, it's all about what your comfortable with. Talking to your partner before, during and after sex is the best way of getting to know what each of you like and don't like. Good luck and I hope it's a lovely experience for you.
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