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writes:Never Thought of asking this on here before but it's now or never, Why do I "not" like gay guys? I think of them and I think to myself never in my life would I go after that, but here's the thing... I'm gay!!!And in the past I've only ever liked 3 guys, both of them straight!HELP! ;( Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2009): I'm into manly gays, and i've had a similar experience; pretty much every single guy i've ever liked at school has turned out to be straight. There's one guy in school who is definately gay, and he has made himself known to me on several ocassions. Just hold out is what i say, there will be plenty of guys out there who want someone like you and you will see what you want in them!
Good luck!
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reader, bobby472  +, writes (27 June 2009):
I agree with Mitta. I myself am attracted to the "manly" men. Maculine and all that good stuff :-). I had a gay friend who had many of the stereotypical gay tendencies. He wanted more then friendship with me, but i couldnt do it. Im not attracted to those kind of men. Im not a stereotypical gay guy either. when I came out to my friends they didnt believe me. But I do understand the atraction to straight men. Many of the guys ive had magor feelings for have been straight. Which totaly suck because it just makes it hurt that much more. But dont worry, its not a sexuality thing your atracted to, it just a type of male you like.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009): Maybe you aren't ready for a relationship so liking straight guys is safe.
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reader, mitta +, writes (14 June 2009):
Maybe you just dont like the 'camp' acting gay guys, you're more attracted to straight acting gay guys. They are out there, but it can be confusing as you might pass them over thinking they're straight!
Everyone has different types, just because you're gay doesnt mean you have to fancy 'stereotypically' gay guys, just like straight men can fancy girls that arent typically girly etc.
Obviously theres no magic pill you can take to make you fancy camp straight men, so just take it easy, the right man will come along soon enough :)
HTH x
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