A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have a problem.... I found out that my boyfriend (lives with me for the past 2 years, have been together 4 years) he cheated on me with a co-worker and everyone from work found out.It happend over a year ago but I just found out now.He cheated with her for about 2 months then he ended it.I kicked him out when I found out and he has been in counciling and trying really hard to win me back.He is a good guy for the most part.He really does love me, our relationship has been stronger over the last year. Another issue we have.....I own my own home and he lives with me(commom law) and is having financial problems. Part of wonders what the hell I am doing..part of me knows he really loves me and would give me the world if he could......... any outside advice would be very helpful
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2010): No, he needs to experience life without you, even for a short while. He has to jump hoops,beg, cry and plead before you should even consider him back. Then he needs to continue counseling, work on himself etc, before you can start dealing with the two of you in a relationship. Take this time to live on your own, let him be on his own and think things through...
There was a reason he slept/emotionally connected with another woman. He also lied to you and withheld the truth.
You need to focus on yourself and you're life before even thinking about forgiving and forgetting...
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