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writes: I met a guy at work a while ago and he was really nice and we got on rreally well and i found myself very attracted him. But the problem was i was scared to get into a relationship with him and kept my distance. Now my best friend is going out with him and i still like him i told him how i feel and he says he feels the same and wants to be with me behind my friend's back. I don't want to hurt my friend but ireally like this guy. What should i do?
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (1 October 2006):
 to be honest if he liked you that much why would he go out with your freind in the first place? and freindship is so much more important than a man, so no please dont see him behind your freinds back! as she will find out the truth always come out weather its years down the line and when she finds out you will hurt her for betraying her trust in you! i mean it isnt like your in love with him so it isnt so hard to walk away and just remain freinds and be happy your freinds happy! i know you met him first but that isnt the matter of the situation here the matter is its your freind im sure if she knew you liked him i dont think she would of got with him.
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reader, Toria +, writes (1 October 2006):
 Firstly I know you got scared but you had your chance and you missed it now he has moved on and although on telling him how you feel he stills wants to stay with your friend.
If I was you I wouldn't do anything with him, your friendship is more important than any guy especially a guy that has no worries about seeing someone else behind his girlfriends back.
You need to walk away from him and be thankful you didn't get involved with him as it could well be you he is cheating on behind your back by now.
Good luck :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2006): I know that you say that you really like this guy, but are you sure that you want to date someone who is prepared to see you behind there girlfriends back. Doesn't it make you wonder if he will be willing to see someone else behind your back??? He sounds like a player to me. If i was you i would let your friend know what he was wanting to do and then both you and your friend steer clear of him. Don't lose a friend over some bloke who will probably break your heart. Think long and hard before you go any further. Goodluck
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reader, ariel +, writes (1 October 2006):
 Put your feeling aside for one minute and think of your friend.How long have the two of you been friends? Is this guy worth loosing your friend over?He does not seem very trust worthy,he is going out with your best friend and wants to see you behind her back.
If he feels strong feelings for you,then he should finish with your friend.Does your friend know that you have these feeling?
You are in an awful situation because you care for both of them.You can't help who you fall inlove with.Just consider the consequence of your actions first.
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