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writes: I met a guy at work a while ago and he was really nice and we got on rreally well and i found myself very attracted him. But the problem was i was scared to get into a relationship with him and kept my distance. Now my best friend is going out with him and i still like him i told him how i feel and he says he feels the same and wants to be with me behind my friend's back. I don't want to hurt my friend but ireally like this guy. What should i do?
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reader, Toria +, writes (1 October 2006):
 Firstly I know you got scared but you had your chance and you missed it now he has moved on and although on telling him how you feel he stills wants to stay with your friend.
If I was you I wouldn't do anything with him, your friendship is more important than any guy especially a guy that has no worries about seeing someone else behind his girlfriends back.
You need to walk away from him and be thankful you didn't get involved with him as it could well be you he is cheating on behind your back by now.
Good luck :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2006): I know that you say that you really like this guy, but are you sure that you want to date someone who is prepared to see you behind there girlfriends back. Doesn't it make you wonder if he will be willing to see someone else behind your back??? He sounds like a player to me. If i was you i would let your friend know what he was wanting to do and then both you and your friend steer clear of him. Don't lose a friend over some bloke who will probably break your heart. Think long and hard before you go any further. Goodluck
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