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writes:i'm in my early 50's divorced almost 9yrs. and can finially say to some that i'm gay. i just started my first relationship 5 months ago, he's 39. i keep having dreams of him cheating and lying to me. prior to this we've were friends the last 4yrs.i don't like the feeling of always being suspicious of him lying or cheating.he's been my best friend for yrs.and i love him, even more so than ever now. can you help with some sort of advise or possible solution? yours truly thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2012): Seek out counseling. It may help.
Dreams are just dreams, and they can be traumatic. Have you ever cheated? Did you ever have secret liaisons while closeted? If so, then this may contribute to your dreams as well, and more importantly, to your reaction to them.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (22 February 2012):
 Congrats on finding a parter! you guys have the same gap as us... I'm 13 years older than my guy...
the dreams you are having are your own insecurities and fears.... they are not premonitions or facts.
why do you not trust him? why are you so insecure?
can you talk to him about it?
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