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writes:I have been in a relationship with this guy now for a month and a bit, me and him were really good friends before, really close for 2 years! And i really loved it, now i feel like its all ruined, being sexual with him doesnt make me as happy as when we wer friends, aand before him i was seein a guy i met on hol, evn tho he lived far away, saw him as mch as possible tho. Anyway obv we stopped talkin, bt spoke to him other day and it was really good. I havnt ever stopped thinkin about him and still feel so strongly, bt now the feelings have come bk again stronger, I miss him so mch and keep comparing my current boyfriend to him, what shud i do? cos i dnt think this other guy wnts to be like tht again anyway. x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008): I think you made a mistake by going out with your good friend. You have feelings of friendship, rather than feeling that he's your boyfriend. It's not fair for you to stay with him if this is how you feel. He deserves to be with someone who loves him in the right way, somebody who won't find themselves attracted to other guys.
He's your friend, be gentle and try to break it off with him. You might not end up with this guy, but it's not fair to treat your current boyfriend like this.
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