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writes:I'm really not too sure what's going on in my life right now. I'm not really sure if it is "depression" as such, but that's how I kind of feel at the moment. I am now in Sixth Form, but like, I really have just lost all enthusiasm/motivation completely. I have been in this numb mood since June now and I have no idea how to get out of it.The thing that confuses me is that I'm not too sure WHY I'm like this. My friends are ace and I'm getting along really well with my parents currently. At school, I'm in a goodish mood but then I come home and feel out of place, lonely and I feel I have no purpose or goal. The next few months are literally exams, results, more exams, work etc etc and school's always been my strong point, yet I just don't care anymore.The only thing that I can say is actually is wrong with my life is with this guy. I met him about 2yrs ago and we talk pretty much everyday over MSN, text etc and I see him about twice a month. We both tell each how much we like eachother, but he has said that it would literally never work as we live too far away. And that is soo painful. I have tried cutting him out of my life, but I literally can't. He is the only person I WANT to talk to and he makes me so happy, yet at the same time so upset.I just seem to be stuck in this rut, and I have no idea how to get out of it. Any advice at all?
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reader, rcn  + ♥, writes (26 February 2008):
 We all experience loss. It's part of life. What's important when you do, is to treasure the experience spent. That's what helps you grow into who your going to be. It's hard growing up and being a teen. As far as your goals and purpose, it's there, you just have to dig and find it. What are you passionate about? Take that and develop it. Dream big dream and follow them to accomplish the dream. You can do anything you choose too and accomplish any goal as long as you set it and take action toward it.
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reader, xapathyxrebornx +, writes (26 February 2008):
 Try setting mini milestones =]Complete sixth form, grit your teeth at your feelign at home and get on with it. Try concentrating on something like coursework or play games and stuff. go out and make sure you have some time to yourself. Try to think of your future like "if i do this i will get this" and follow on from koga777's idea... If you do this you may be able to move into a city nearer to him x
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008): mhmm iv been through this talk everyday to the person you love in yet you cant be together it hurts a whole lot what gets me through it is this.you love this person right?so if he is happy with his life shouldnt you be?sides its not like you dont see him think of it like this you are young you two still have plenty of time to decide whether or not you can be together get a job and move to his city(when your old enough)it's very nice that he likes you too that makes the whole situation a lot simpler hope this helps-michael
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