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30-35,
*jroberts
writes:hi, I have quite a big problem. I finished with my ex girlfriend after being with her for just under a year, so i could get with another girl, who i thought i loved. I told this girl i loved her and i have been with her for 2months now.She tells me she loves me all the time, but now, i don't really feel the same way. I don't know what it is... but i just don't feel the same. I feel like i need to get out of this relationship, but i don't no how, i couldn't bear breaking her heart. I just need to escape, please help me!
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reader, ajroberts +, writes (5 February 2007):
ajroberts is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks a lot... i think Eves answer will work
thanks!!
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reader, AskEve +, writes (5 February 2007):
 Oh dear, the course of true love never runs smooth! There's no easy way to do this. I would try and be more unavailable when she calls. Don't stay on the phone with her too long, tell her you have things to get done. If she asks to go out somewhere tell her you can't as you've made other arrangements or you have this or that to do. If you do this for a week or 2 then she'll know something is wrong. If she asks you at a later date, (even if she doesn't) then you can tell her you don't think things are working out the way you first thought. Let her know though that you really like her and respect her as a person but you just don't think you are meant to be together. Besides, you're going to be really busy in the next few weeks and hope she understands.
She'll get over it, so don't worry okay?
Eve
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reader, Miss Optimistic +, writes (4 February 2007):
You are of an age where hormones are wreaking havoc with your mind!! Be careful not to get a reputation for dumping girls, you may never get another date!!
You could try explaining to her that you feel bad being with her after finishing with the first girl and you need to cool things off for a while.
Good luck and best wishes
xx
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (4 February 2007):
 You went to all that trouble of finishing with your previous partner so you could get this girl, now you don't want this one.
If your feelings are no longer there for this girl you have got to tell her now, otherwise you will be just stringing her along. The longer you leave it the harder it will become to tell her. She may be heartbroken but she will get over it, she deserves to be told. Im sure you would want her to tell you if she diden't love you anymore.
Good luck
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