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I just found out that she's cheating on me. What should I do?

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Question - (31 May 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 31 May 2011)
A male South Africa age 30-35, *elltoo101 writes:

helo everyone i just found out now now that my girlfriend is cheating on me. my body is so weak right now. my heart beat has way way up. what should i do about this? the girl i thought i was going to marry.

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A male reader, Melltoo101 South Africa +, writes (31 May 2011):

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Melltoo101 agony auntThank u very much everyone. its the second time she cheats now. i dont need this in my life. but i am glad she showed me her real self, now i can focus my energy on finding someone who wont stabe me in the back. i dont think ama sleep tonite. thanx all.

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A male reader, macdubh712 United States +, writes (31 May 2011):

I think you should tell her to "Right, Face!" "Forward, March!" Trust me, I know that's hard, but you'll have less heartache in the long run. That is, unless she REALLY proves to you that she won't do it again. However, this is not likely. Sorry dude, good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2011):

Dump her for good and focus on your health.

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A female reader, fatelove77 Canada +, writes (31 May 2011):

I'm sorry you're going through this. Everyone goes though it at some point or another. I would make sure that it's 100% true, and confront her about it. I'd make sure I got closure on it, and realize that she was not the right one or the one you're meant to marry. It's going to be a hard few months, but you will feel okay one day. It just takes time. Focus on yourself, pick up some new hobbies...and try to keep your mind off her! If you can, try to stay away from facebook or any other site where you're friends with her.

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