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writes:There is this guy at work and my co workers said he was quite sweet on me and I thought so too. I left that job so we swapped numbers and we texted for a bit... it was nice and he always replied really quickly, if I didn't reply he would send a text asking why I hadn't replied. So I know that he liked me!I think I was a bit to forward and eager though and he gave me a bit of a brush off! So I kind of forgot about him for 5 weeks, then I decided to go back to my old job and we saw each other again and my feelings came back!Sometimes I get the feeling that he has too, I feel as though he treats me different to other girls, he always helps me, his eyes soften when he looks at me, he creeps up behind me and makes me jump, he makes an effort to talk to me and tries to keep me engaged in conversation, we are very aware of each others presence, I think I make him nervous! I think these are all good signs but he doesn't text me, but then again I don't text him as I am waiting for him to text me, could he be doing the same? (I don't wanna make a fool of myself) is it possible that he could still like me? thanks guys
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhiya its me!!
we texted all the time, but he wasnt asking me out! so i asked him if he liked me and he said he found me very attractive and i was nice to talk to, he said he was a bit busy as he was moving house but he would sort something soon but he didnt get back to me. I think i came on to strong for him and appeared to eager,i scared him off!! we didnt really text much after that as i didnt want to pester him! Do you think maybe he is only acting this way because he knows i like him? thanks xxx
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (21 March 2008):
 Hi,
What was the "brush off" about please? This will help us to try to help you. Starfairy has mentioned you need to give us more information as well. H.
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reader, Michael Bo Andersen  +, writes (21 March 2008):
I'm Very shy myself, it may sound stupid, but i couldn't just write a message or start a conversation with a girl i love, if I wasn't sure about if she loved me i wouldn't be able to show it very well, I would hide all my feelings so i wouldn't make a fool of myself if she didn't love me.
I think very well that he still loves you.
Good luck finding out :) Ask him in person, it just seems more right then in a message
Hope you could use any of it.
Michael Bo Andersen
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2008): Just sit tight, if he likes you he needs to have the balls to make his move. So just bide your time.Good luck
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reader, starfairy +, writes (20 March 2008):
 Sorry I got really confused reading that.
So he was way over the top with texting, then all of a sudden stopped?
What happened in between?
I can't comment yet because you haven't given us enough of the picture of what's gone on...
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