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writes: My fiancee and I recently broke apart and he has suspicions that i have been unfaithful with another family member. Although this is not the reason for the split, it has come out here, recently. He knows how i feel about marriage and vows, so how can i get him to understand that i have not done the things he thinks? In addition, can our relationship resolve itself once we get passed this?
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (14 January 2006):
 Obviously your fiancee has some insecurities that he needs to address. I am wondering if he and the family member in question have a past. Maybe one of his past partners was unfaithful with them? Has the family member in question steped forward to coroborate your denials. If they have and there is no past then I don't see any reason why he should not believe the both of you combined.
You say this is not the real reason for the split. I think maybe you need to address whatever that is first and foremost and then move on to addressing his suspiscions. Take one thing at a time and work through each thing. Hope it works out for you.
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