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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now and we have a 7 month son together. its my boyfriends 28th birthday today and i went out of my way to ensure he had everything he wanted even though it has left me worse off. I even got him a silly cake to make sure he had a smile on his face. I was hoping we would spend the day as a family but all he wants to do is go out with his mate and get drunk. i feel so put out as he has made it very clear that i am not welcome. am i wrong to feel slightly upset by this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhis mates come round and he has a drink in the house most nights. i dont know how to address the problem without coming across as nagging. i cant sit and drink whenever i want as im always the one looking after the baby. thanks for your comments x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2011): Hello,
I don't think your wrong to feel upset by this. It was a big day and all you wanted to do was spend his birthday with him and your child. Talk to him about it.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (3 March 2011):
 Upset? no he sounds like a bit of a prick.
28 you say?.. not far off from having to be considerd a "Proper adult"
first and formost he's a prick.
does he drink often?
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