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writes:so i'm good friends with this girl at school and i've now got strong feelings for her. i'm not sure if i should just tell her, for fear of our freindship becoming really wierd if she doesn't feel the same way. any advice Reply to this Question |
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reader, Charmedone +, writes (1 May 2007):
Hi Sweetie,
The best way around this is do everythng you do as friends ie going to the cinema or just hanging out then slowly but surely get onto the subject of who you like at school get her to answer first if she makes direct eye contact with you and drops hints she may like you but don't tell her that you like her yet then a few weeks later drop hints to her that you like her for instance say she looks nice in a certain outfit or you like the way she has done her hair crap like that then sit her down and explain that you have started to develop feelings for her and that you want to take things further if she feels the same way then go for it BUT explain to her even if she doesn't feel the same way you don't want to ruin the friendship you have she will be flattered that you are being honest about the way you feel about her hope this helped and gd luck xx
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