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writes:I am a young man. I like girls i yave sex with them and its good but i think i'm interested in boys more. i look up boys (their hips,penis) much more than girls. I live in a very conservative country so don't know what to do? There is a question in my mind that bothers me a lot.Can't understand am i gay or bi? I'm in predicament Reply to this Question
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reader, baby_tinney  +, writes (18 June 2009):
 If you dont know whether you are gay or srtaight but want a label for if call it bi untill you figure out what one you are. Just be you, dont be what others think you should be or whatever. Follow your heart head and body, you will know in no time.
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reader, laura585 +, writes (18 June 2009):
If you like both girls and guys your bi. If girls dont really appeal to you, you just have been with them because its what most people say is "normal" but guys really appeal to you, then you're gay. There's nothing wrong with either of them. If guys appeal to you more than that is normal, for you. I dont know how it is in your country but I know homosexuals and bisexual (men mostly) are discriminated against constantly here. (For some reason bisexual women are not as much as the men) Its going to be a tough road ahead of you but you deserve to be happy and be true to yourself and be with some one (no matter what their gender) that makes you completely happy. Whatever you do, dont lie to yourself.
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reader, 78ta09 +, writes (18 June 2009):
 That doesnt mean anything.. Girls will look other girls up and down to compare them to us.. and im not bi i dont want woman parts in my mouth.. but there are girls who i think are pretty sexy.. im not against gay's bi's or tansexuals at all but i think you should really think about it before you expirament bc if you realize you are not gay or bi you will have to live with that the rest of your life.. but if you are okay with it then go ahead and try it out.. i personally wouldnt.. but thats just me.
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (18 June 2009):
 No you are just discovering your own sexuality. It is yours and if you are discovering it, so be it. Nothing to be ashamed of.
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