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writes:im 13 i have really strong feelings 4 this girl for ages but iv never 2 good with girls and i need some tips on flirting.Also my best m8 likes her 2 but he gets any girl he wants and i don't know what to do because me and him are like are brothers but im gettin really jealous and i have a very bad temper and have violent outbursts wen i feel threatened..........
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2007): I agree with the advice up there. Also, just keep in mind that who the girl ends up with is really not going to be decided by either one of you. She'll go with who she likes better, which can also end up being neither one of you. Therefore, you just need to put your best side out there for her to see and try to win her over by being open and being yourself. If she still doesn't go for you, then perhaps it is a sign that you were not meant to be after all. If that is the case, it's not because you weren't as good as your friend. Different people have different preferences. There will be someone out there who wants someone just like you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2007): Idmldm, Whoa! Slow down, young mate! First, don't sell yourself short. Anger and temper often come from a feeling of frustration. If you feel threatened, it may all be in your own head. You envy your mate's "success" at making friends with girls. You shouldn't be angry at him for that. It is what you would like to have...right? Well, why don't you take some tips from him? How does he act around girls? Is he open and friendly? Does he have good conversational ability? Probably so. Maybe these are some some things you need to work on. Girls are not alien creatures. They speak the same language you do. They like the same music, etc. They have many of the same problems. You say you need to learn how to "flirt". That may not be the word you mean. You need to learn to simply talk to girls in a way that makes them want to be around you and get to know you better. One "tip" i will give you is that compliments of any kind are always well accepted. You can never go wrong there,..unless you are dumb enough to be vulgar. Obviously, "you've got great boobies", is not what I mean! Girls like knowing somebody thinks they are neat for other things than their looks. Keep that in mind. And, about this "special" girl,..admiring her from afar will not get much notice from her. You can "compete" with your mate without becoming enemies. But always remember that girls are pretty much forever. You will meet many others whom you will admire in your life. At least one of them will feel the same about you. Trust me (wink) Tom
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