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I have probably took my virginity away by masturbating and I'm scared!

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Question - (28 February 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 8 March 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

my mom thinks i'm a virgin.but i really don't know either.Because i have been masterbating and probaly unvirgined myself.what should i do?tell my mom or get checked but my mom has to come with me?if she finds out that i'm not she is going to kill me.

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A female reader, Triskaedeka102 Canada +, writes (8 March 2009):

Triskaedeka102 agony auntVirginity is just like any other things, it's relative in terms of its definition. It can be the break of hymen, and it can also be no experience of intercourse before. And yes, masturbating is not wrong, from my pov, it's great! You're in control of your own pleasure, and it makes you ready for real sex when you're really ready.

Cheers :]

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009):

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thanx sooo much no i can stop wondering about it.it makes me feel sooo much better now that i know i have nothing to worry about it.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (28 February 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntStop being so silly! It's not like you've had sex, the virginity you are talking about is breaking your hymen and if you have ever rode a bike or horse or done the splits, your hymen is probably long gone anyway.

Masturbating is not wrong, just wait before having sex!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009):

You're still a virgin until you've had a penis in there.

There's no need to do anything or say anything to anyone - and in any case, your mom and just about every other woman on the planet will have done the same thing when they were your age, so stop worrying - there's absolutely nothing to be concerned about. It's natural to masturbate so enjoy the experience instead of feeling guilty about it!

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